Yeah, because Dylan's parents aren't losing a son as well. In ways it's worse, because they lose a family member plus they are now labeled as the parents who raised a racist murderer. This isn't just a meme fail, it's a life fail.

As long as you feel that way about every mass murderer, I'll respect your consistency. Charles Manson, Jeffrey Dahmer, and the rest. Do you really think the judge needed to lecture the family members about compassion for Dylann's family after some of them had already come out and said they forgave the murderer himself, within 24 hours of this man gunning down unarmed church-goers who had welcomed him into their fold? That Judge was simply politicking to the white folks who will elect him again, just as he was when he used the word Ni**er while rebuking a black defendant.

"In a way it's worse"? If you were suffering from some sort of mental illness that would be an acceptable utterance. But if not, you're simply a bad person. You have the nerve to compare the loss of a family whose child may go to jail for the most despicable crime short of genocide, (and a crime which he actually hoped would trigger genocide) and who may by labeled as crappy parents (so many of your countrymen will probably praise them) to the loss of fathers, mothers, sons, and daughters who will NEVER be able to see their loved ones again? Really think there is an equivalency there? I will except the label of "life fail" from you gladly.

I feel that way about anyone that loses a family member. Regardless of the reason, they didn't ask for this to happen. Also, try looking up what was said and in what context. If you're so caught up in the "everyone is a racist" make believe movement then I feel sorry for you. Guess who benefits from racism existing? The people that MAKE A LIVING because it exists. Do you really think they want to end racism when they make millions doing absolutely nothing to contribute to society? Stop being naive and try living in the real world.