I'm 44 and an only parent. Not a single parent, an only parent, and a man. I amn expected to cook, clean, teach, guide, play, taxi and everything else. And every bit of it is expected of me. In the meantime I'm expected to look after my son's mother who suffers severe paranoid delusions and so is not allowed unsupervised access to her child, and cannot contribute to raising him either financially or emotionally. I also try to run my own small business (which makes no money), I can't find a job anywhere. But you're right, men don't go through the same shît. And I'm not a man. I'm worse. I'm a white man!