i wasn't being serious. but guys these days are becoming more "feminine" with all their gels and tight clothes and sob storys about being bullied. when i grew up, it was defend yourself and jump in the fray, don't care about getting beat up, just show you won't back down. and the chicks these days, there's just no conversation to be had, only texting and if i don't like their selfies, i'm the asshole.