Bear's reaction to Bird interacting with her friends is why I don't like meeting people both IRL and on this website. You could be a chill person to someone else, and yet ONE SMALL THING is enough for them to turn and project on you.
It's something that's happened to me a lot, and it's why I try not to get too comfortable whenever I meet someone new. You just never know what they'll get pissed off at you for and when...