It's like a gorilla fighting a bear. A bear actively hunts and kills other animals, a gorilla does not. A martial artist is trained to only fight for defense and a bully is not. Just like the defense and offense in football. If you trained a gorilla to kill at will, then the gorilla will be capable of wrecking the bear. A martial artist trained to kill will destroy anybody. There's so many ways to damage people and restraint is what keeps things from being that way. Just how a security force employee is told to do nothing until they get the green light. That's real. The martial arts kid is going to be confused about what happened unless you have the conversation.
