uhh I said comments, not title...

Okay, so, I'm agender and I've had people call me a he, an it, and basically every pronoun their little brains can think of. I use any pronouns and all titles, so they're always right with whatever they address me as, and I think it's hilarious when they're like "Sir..." or something, trying to upset me, and I just answer their question or statement normally.

I'm invincible when it comes to misgendering ;3

Ok my fine fellow friend, most humble of souls, remarkably exquisite-minded human, delightfully well-spoken companion, admirably thoughtful individual, steadfast wanderer of curious paths, wonderfully kind-hearted conversationalist and quite exquisited minded human being

Wait did you say that you were

Comrade.

What?

comrade

Kolega.

lol

ok uh. nothing

You misexistenced me :(

personally for me it doesnt really matter :p (i'm genderfluid + straight)

Honestly atp my gender is changing from nonbinary to female (default), a guy and nonbinary.
So it’s so hard for my friends to misgender me atp

Ah, so genderfluid?

ATP maybe.
It just feels like I’m sitting in a room with everything flying around until I pick lol

That's so real

I used to feel that way, and it took YEARS for me to find a gender that felt right (my current gender, agender). Just remember that you'll find what you are eventually, even if it takes a long time! ^^

Just don't stress too much about gender because, in the end, even if you can't find something that feels right, you're still a human, and no label can change the fact that you are you. ^^

To me finding out who I am is is like deciding if I want to be a disgrace to this family. Like there are so homophobic I get scared

Everyone in mine except for my mom is very transphobic, so I completely understand. I just want you to know that you don't have to tell them until you're ready, and if they don't respect you for who you are, then they don't deserve to have such a wonderful person in their lives. I'm personally waiting until I've moved out to tell my family so I can stop talking to them if they don't respect me.

Many people are hateful of us who are anything but straight and cis, and it's their decision whether or not they treat you badly. You can't stop them, but you CAN be yourself no matter what they say/think/feel.

Once some guy said to me: "You'll never be a girl, dude!" I'm a trans man. he was trying to be transphobic and failed 😭

Bro tried to be transphobic but ended up saying something supportive XDD

that's what I love about being a trans femboy--Every bigot I know irl thinks I'm a trans girl and when they try to misgender me it actually makes my day hehe