So what is SELF GRATIFICATION BY PROXY and what does it look like? Self Gratification by Proxy, also known as Woke or Virtue Signalling, mostly practiced by the Ultra Far Left, is when YOU, betray YOUR OWN FAMILY / YOUR COUNTRY, so YOU can gain the SELF GRATIFICATION from OTHERS of similar ILK! Too Easy. Yarra Man; In a broader context, seeing how the new Islamist King, Islamist Prime Minister, Islamist Police Chief betrayed the women and kids of the UIK. In a wider context seeing what the Islamist President of the European Islamic Union did to betray almost ALL of Europe, particularly little girls!