Sorry this is really weird thing but I've been stewwin over it

44 views • 5 upvotes • Made by NyxTheWitch 21 hours ago in LGBTQ

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CooookieM
1 up, 16h, 1 reply
You are in your mid teens, right? I felt that way too around that age. Being disgusted.

The way I think about being pandemi personally is that I have the ability to like anyone, but the demi aspect come from me just wanting to know someone, 

I assume you don't know these people walking around 

-# this is the problem with sexuality, we try and define boarders that don't exist naturally. 

You need to keep in mind that it is fine to contradict yourself. If other get pissy, that's their issue, not yours. (Sure it will piss off the chuds even more than already)
NyxTheWitch
0 ups, 12h, 1 reply
Wow. Am I that immature?
NyxTheWitch
0 ups, 12h, 1 reply
Thanks for your advice and wisdom, but also do you think I’m a child
CooookieM
0 ups, 5h
I assume you are around your mid teens. Not so much a child. But maybe going through hormonal changes.
Whoisthatcat
0 ups, 17h, 1 reply
Whoisthatcat0 ups, <1h

i feel like somebody who is ace might just not notice it at all, I mean i have a friend who is aro ace and he literally just doesn’t register it. You feeling uncomfortable around it might not mean your ace but simply opposed to random strangers dressing so inappropriately, which is perfectly fair. Personally, i don’t find it uncomfortable but i agree with you that it is repulsive. As for it being desirable, that entirely depends on the individual.
Whoisthatcat
0 ups, 17h
considering you say that you only love people you are close with i’d say the disgust comes from just seeing a stranger in such a s**tty outfit in public
RainyDays_and_TransGirl_stuff
0 ups, 1h
I think it’s totally personal. Maybe you are ace, but even if you're not, this is not determined by what clothing you find attractive. I tend to like androgynous people and I love alternative styles. So if I don't like the way someone is dressed, does that mean I'm ace? No, it just means I don't like this certain type of clothing. (not to say you're not ace, I don't know. But this is a theory on people who are not ace but just don't like the clothing others like)

By the way, I've also been questioning whether I'm ace, but I just don't really care, I do what feels right and doesn't harm people. This is the most important thing: being happy, regardless of the category you find yourself in.

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So I think I might be ace, and please let me explain why. I am demipan, so I can love any gender, but only people I'm close with. This does not mean I do not find people attractive. If I see someone who is pretty, I think they're pretty. The problem is, I don't like the things other people like. Every day I see people (usually cis girls) walking around with shorts so thin and cropped they might as well not wear them, and I've been told this is a desirable or attractive thing. I hate it. It makes me uncomfortable, and I feel awkward, and honestly, it makes me feel sick sometimes. I notice it more and more these days and it makes me more and more uncomfortable each time. Am i ace? I didnt think i was, I mean I haven't like, tried but a lot of people don't try, right? Its normal to have nightmares about anything s3xual, right?????