That's backwards. You're talking about people who demand other people accept their ideology. That's the exact opposite of minding your own business. Look - If you think being a woman will make you happy , more power to you. I don't care. It leaves more real women for me. But I don't have to accept you as anything other than a guy in drag or a person who has had sexual reassignment surgery.
Live your life as you see fit. But don't demand others agree with you.