My ideal gender reveal party is just a little sign that says “hi, my pronouns are” and the balloon is popped and out comes ladybugs cuz they’re cool, and a note that says “idk yet, we’ll have to just wait and see”
Well, that's tge point. Gender reveals should only be done when you come out as trans in my opinion. If it's about what's in your pants, it's not a gender reveal but a sex reveal.