Mrow

Flagged in what way?

When I told him I was a furry four or five years ago, apparently he clocked me in his head as trans and lesbian because of what he though about furries, and didn’t think to tell me

DAMN

so you decided to make him think something hes not because he had an assumption that affected you in absolutely no way?

No, I helped him realize that him not being interested romantically or sexually in anyone, had a name. I didn’t force him into thinking anything

word differently next time

I will

Dude my friend took one look at me when we met and decided I must be trans. I wasn't out and I was denying it but damn she was right

Kinda out of context, but I just wanted to admire that you listen to Moon Walker. Grat musician, great lyrics.

But to your announcement: Think of the egg prime directive. We don't tell people they're trans. We help them realize, but we don't label them. That can cause defense mechanisms, making it harder for them to realize.

I didn’t tell him he was, I just explained there was a name for what he felt. He’s never been romantically or sexually interested in anyone