Yes, that was the premise of the meme. Which was why I didn't understand your comment about gay men.
The child abuse you are talking about is an incredibly broad category. So all encompassing, that I don't think there is a person on the planet who couldn't claim abuse in their childhood based on that. Most of which would not even be considered criminal. As women statistically spend far more time in the raising of children than men, it's actually more shocking to me that those numbers aren't higher.
As for the Epstein class, I think we can all agree that the crimes we're talking about there, are much more troubling. Far beyond verbally belittling or screaming. If I exposed a child to someone who screamed at them, I would feel bad. If I exposed a child to someone who committed Epstein level crimes against them, I would be sickened, and never be able to forgive myself. Let alone the predator.
93-99% of all sexual crimes are committed by men. Can we agree that some crimes are worse than others?