i'm a girl now. just btw.
i've always kinda felt wrong being a boy, even with the whole femboy persona i've built up over the years. it always felt like lying to myself, like i was taking a mask halfway off to look better than if i took it all the way off.
i was also scared. i joined msmg way back in 2020, and lived through the 2021-23 era where everyone f**king hated lgbtq people for some reason. i thought that if i was open about myself, at least more open than i already was, i would get hated on for it and that was the last thing i wanted.
obviously now the culture around trans people here has shifted greatly, and i know that nowadays very little people will even care.
uh so yeah. i go by she/her now.