1.Your argument is that straight men don't date trans women. You are making a flat blanket statement saying that no straight man wants to date a trans woman. You have clearly been proven wrong with at least 5 examples I got from news stories, and we're not even limited to these 5.
2.You asked me for my personal experience with romantic attraction to trans people as a cis person. I gave you my experience. It doesn't make any sense to then claim that my story is futile. That's a very disappointing mindset to have, that you're only one small person with no significant impact, but you're argument has a flaw: I'm not trying to. I don't need to affect every person on the entire planet. You might as well be saying an ant is insignificant because it can't build a skyscraper.
3.I believe I have used the wrong word. I apologize for the confusion. They were friends of mine that I had sought a romantic partnership with.
4.Ah, I see your confusion. You appear to have built an algorithm that wants to show you that type of content. From that, I might conclude you have only transphobic content in your fyp or feed. This is a phenomenon known as an echo chamber, which is where your current ideology is reaffirmed through constant media that supports your already existing ideas. Though, I will give you credit in the sense that yes, hiding the fact you're trans from someone who's trans in a sexual relationship is considered attempted rape. This does not in any manner that being trans is inherently wrong or evil. Only about 2% of rape crimes involve trans people as the offender.