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like i get hella glaze n shi but i jus want someone who knows their worth

if you were looking for good self esteem i was not the guy

i mean i couldve helped, maybe or maybe not

see the danger is that most guys are either in two groups; either they 1) don't have enough self esteem, or they feel inadequate for someone who is pretty and feel like they could never deserve her
and 2) there's the confident ones who feel they're worth anyone.
The problem is that 2 (whether boy or girl) is quite often a narcissist and narcissism is easily confusable with confidence. It's possible to not be narcissistic like this, but bc confidence is attractive, ppl end up getting with narcissists often, and this cycle keeps repeating
1 is usually hard to tell, they could really be anything and you learn once you get to know them. They could be narcissistic themselves, or they could be sweet.

wise information my dude thanks ❤️‍🩹

yw
tbh if you have someone who thinks you're too good for them, they might value you a lot more than most ppl would
But then they could also feel distant bc they feel they don't deserve you
So it's really dependent on the person

Personally I'm definitely in the first category with anyone I would like, but I also have a problem where I assume that if I like someone there's no way in hell they'd like me back, so that's another problem ppl could have

yess that is very true
maybe and yeah it does depend on who in the situation
yeah i totally get that

yeah
that's why it's ideal to know someone for a while beforehand, but that's not always possible (it definitely ain't possible for me lol)

yeah fr
and my mom doesn't help with that lmao

exactly that makes a good point

yeah moms can be hard on us sometimes but we gotta push through yk? and they can also be good and bad support depending how it is.

yeah
the more I see different ppl, the more I realize humans have very similar personalities and we just recycle them back and forth (you have one person who's more aggressive, and then ppl respond to them with more aggression or they are people pleasers, and they branch out a bit, but always come back to the same stuff)
so you wanna be able to trust whoever you end up with
and being pretty can help you get the best of people but it will also attract the worst
being ugly does that in a different way though bc some of the worst ppl might feel they can't get with anyone good so they'll just "settle for" you, but then a really decent person might go for character instead of looks too and value you
there's pros and cons in every situation tbh

yeah fr
no fr tho when my mom found out who my first crush was she was like "just bc you like someone doesn't mean they'll like you back" like bruh I knew that from the start, that's why I've been too shy for 2 years? and being ugly doesn't help
long story short I never overcame that

yeah i mean, hey we all are human and we are all linked to one another but yeah that is comepletely true

haha yeah relatable, i have had a crush on my neighbor for awhile and never had the guts to ask him out (his brother had told my stepdad that he had liked me when i liked him, two years later) i was so mad like he could've jus asked me out bc l was like in love with him fr he is such a kind and very handsome person.

yeah fr

oh damn, I'm so sorry
that's so sad fr tho

ye basically anytime I began to overcome my fears and tried to give myself a goal to force myself to talk to her, I would suddenly be punished and couldnt leave home for a month, and when I finally got back out, I was back to being shy again bc I hadn't socialized in forever
and when that didn't happen, I got sick instead, and would be stuck at home for a month again. That happened so many times that I became convinced something out there really hates me lol

its alr (imma be a hopeless romantic)

ikrr but its good now, but sucks when i see his majestic self (sorry for the glaze lmaoo) when im outside checking mail or something

dude i feel ya on that one

damn
Same probably
I'm sorry fr

Lmaooo about the glaze
I can imagine tho
I haven't even seen my first crush in 5 years atp 😭
anytime she's come in town there's always a reason I can't be anywhere she is
and now that's permanently true as of a few months ago

yeah it sucks fr
I actually hate school bc of that and I never will get over that

eh... I feel like my brain hates me sometimes