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(Yes the socks are mine they’re so cute and warm!!) | SO, IM REALLY DEBATING ON COMING OUT TO MY CLASSMATES/CO-COWORKERS, FOR REFERENCE, IM BISEXUAL, ALWAYS HAVE BEEN, DATED BOTH WAYS, AND MY PARENTS NEVER THOUGHT MUCH OF IT; BUT MY DAD ALWAYS ENCOURAGED ME NOT TO TELL OUTSIDE OF OUR INNER CIRCLE BECAUSE HE FEARS IT MAY COST ME JOB OPPORTUNITIES, OR GET ME DISCRIMINATED AGAINST AT SCHOOL | made w/ Imgflip meme maker
105 views 4 upvotes Made by MothZiex 2 days ago in LGBTQ
12 Comments
1 up, 1d,
1 reply
well, why would someone realistically need to know? i dont share stuff about me unless someone asked AND if it is a good place to say so. generally work environments is a no go, as sharing your orientation kinda alludes to something
0 ups, 11h,
1 reply
I see I see, that actually makes a lot of sense, I just have some friends that are coworkers and a lot of my friends from work or school have no idea and they’ve asked questions about my love life before and it’s awkward trying to conversate around the topic without bringing it up
0 ups, 6h
gender is kinda a different story, you ideally would like people to not misgender you, so take that with what you will.
but yeah, just be cautious with timing on talking about stuff.
0 ups, 2d,
1 reply
Um well
Maybe refrain from telling people you don't really trust, and maybe tell close friends and not your whole class maybe🤔
But idk, you do what you feel is right
0 ups, 1d,
1 reply
I guess that makes sense, the other day my boss asked me in passing if my date went well and had no idea it was with someone of the same gender and it makes me feel a little guilty sometimes
1 up, 1d,
1 reply
You shouldn't need to feel guilty at that
Like its fine to date the same gender
But as what me and bbee said, maybe just only tell people you trust😁
0 ups, 5h
Yeah, thanks!
0 ups, 2d
Only tell people you trust
0 ups, 1d,
1 reply
I see no real reason why you would need to share your orientation publicly honestly. It doesn't have anything to do with who you are as a person (unless you make it that way) and if people suddenly discover that you're bisexual and don't want to voluntarily associate with you anymore, that's their problem, not yours, because that's such an insignificant thing that nobody should get worked up over it
0 ups, 5h,
1 reply
Well here’s my thing is I have like- work friends and school friends who obviously talk to me and discuss our personal lives and hangout and stuff, and im just kinda wondering if I should tell them or not
0 ups, 5h
Unless you're gonna be dating someone the same sex as you and feel like telling them stuff about that, i wouldn't feel the need to
0 ups, 22h
Definitely read your audience! Along with that, unless it's required, nobody else really NEEDS to know. Especially if it could put you in danger of discrimination.
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SO, IM REALLY DEBATING ON COMING OUT TO MY CLASSMATES/CO-COWORKERS, FOR REFERENCE, IM BISEXUAL, ALWAYS HAVE BEEN, DATED BOTH WAYS, AND MY PARENTS NEVER THOUGHT MUCH OF IT; BUT MY DAD ALWAYS ENCOURAGED ME NOT TO TELL OUTSIDE OF OUR INNER CIRCLE BECAUSE HE FEARS IT MAY COST ME JOB OPPORTUNITIES, OR GET ME DISCRIMINATED AGAINST AT SCHOOL