Are people's insults really devolving into "You're an incel" or "You've never had sex"

don't these two example sentences mean kinda the same thing?

I'm saying "You're an incel" is just an ad hominem I see way too many times

you could say that about pretty much any insult tbh but I get what you mean

I agree, anyone who unironically uses the word "incel" cannot be taken seriously.

ok