Figuring out your gender identity be like (does anyone have any advice? Might help me out)

Note: I tried to do all the flags with heart emojis, but the demigirl flag has different shades of gray (at least it wasn't fifty, that'd be a lot), so I couldn't do this one😔.

However, any advice on figuring out my gender identity? I could use some.

ok, if you could put yourself on a scale, where would you lie?
where we got 3 dimentions, female, third gender, and male. (wacky scale we got here)
do you feel like that point shifts or covers an area instead?