Like, if you become the girlfriend, this specific problem still isn't solved

I feel called out TwT

Dear Millie (I assume that's your irl chosen name, correct me if I'm wrong), I hope you find someone who fits you if you haven't already. 🏳️‍⚧️❤️

You were right to assume :p

I'm glad I was right 😀.
By the way, I have a question for you since you're trans and I'm a non-binary person who's currently questioning whether they might be trans: How did you realize you were trans, and how did you know you weren't in a different category? Do you have any advice?
You don't need to answer this question if it's too personal, but it might help me understand my own gender identity a bit more (also it's a way of getting to know new people). I'm just questioning since I've been feeling pretty fem lately (I'm assigned male at birth), and I want to understand myself.