As someone who used to struggle with being overweight, skipping meals is not the solution, changing your diet is. Skipping will just make you a lot hungrier later (and also a lot more likely to eat snacks and other unhealthy things, worsening the problem)

damn.
your mom is a horrible person man.
nobody should bodyshame you.
hopefully you'll be able to lose some weight though.
I'm sorry to hear.

Don't listen to her.

She's probably just worried about you, and listen. Cutting meals won't do anything good for you. You'll just get sick. If losing weight is the plan, food actually helps you lose weight if you know what to do. You can exercise but if you don't have food you won't have any energy to do so, but you don't have to change for anyone if you don't want to. and please don't starve yourself. Nothing good will come out of that. Please take care of yourself bro

Thanks y'all, I really needed this.

Damn.

hope everything gets better

Update: I weigh more than what I had before, I keep skipping meals just saying that I am not hungry. I have gotten less and less sleep in the past few months. My sleep schedule has always been complete shit, sleep apnea or not

i do have sleep apnea