I'm real sorry about this, I actually didn't know that there were so many ways to use the term! I mostly just remember it from the days I used to be on discord and people continuously used it as a way to say they're lgbtq while just being straight in reality. Thanks for teaching me!
As for the joke thing, it wasn't necessarily ment or pointed out to be a joke, but I wasn't going to stop someone from portraying it as one. Hope this doesn't affect the way you see me, I'm genuinely really sorry about this whole encounter 🙇♂️