No, change is natural, but one shouldn't force change, simply let it occur
Consider one's life as a river.
It flows along a set path to the ocean (imagine the ocean as death or the afterlife)
If the river were to run on for long enough, it would naturally change and it's course would be altered.
However, if some external factor were to suddenly interrupt the flow of the river or alter it in a harmful way (even if it's disguised as help, like a dam), then the river is no longer flowing as it should to reach it's destination.
Let that river of life run it's natural course, and all will work out in the end