I'm trying to f**king help.
just saying "oh i'm there for you" doesn't f**king help. I'm giving actual advice.
I told them how exactly they can help themselves. I gave them a resource that I know they have access to but "oh it's not loading" f**king bullshit by the way but i'm continuing to try and help by giving the best advice that can be given right now which is for them to go to sleep.