Ik this is Neko, and if it isn't sorry for the disrespect, it isn't for you.
Nako, you're a dumbass.
First one is based, but worded pretty weirdly. Like just say that not dating some1 due to their genitals is not transphobic.
Second part, no, misgendering is always transphobic, saying someone can deserve misgendering implies self-determination is a privilege bestowed for good behavior, not a right.