If I had a child still believing in things like Santa and the Easter bunny in their teenage years, I would try to bring some sense into their minds. I also wouldn't want them believing in the nonsense of a thousand-year-old book and basing their lives around it.
Again with the "Anything about my religion that I don't like is catholic".
People aren't forced into cults, they're forced to stay in them. Leaving the religion (especially at my age) is very difficult. I'm still forced to attend church 1-2 times per week, and Christian school 7 hours per day. Even when I can afford my own house and be independent, I'll still have people checking up to "pray for my faith". I also have to deal with narcissistic parents trying to force their religion into my life every chance they get, whether that's forced meetings with pastors or having life "coaches" talk about me and my faith.
It seems like a cult to me. You're told to commit your "soul" to the religion, you're told to "make Jesus 100% of your lives", you're told you're "different than the world", you have a mission of bringing others into the religion, being pushed to be friends/spouses only with people inside the religion, and you have a bunch of really sbizarre.
People don't like the word "cult", but your religion, when looked at from an outside perspective, is. It's very difficult for people to see something wrong with the religion they've made most of their lives based on.