Sometimes I fantasize about getting a well paying job and being able to comfortably afford a decent home

Same

yeah I'd say you're fine

about who doing what

No.

Why would you fantasize bout an abusive relationship

No.

2 obvious reasons:

Abusive relationships aren't something to fantasize about.

and..

That's a fictional character, actual degenerate level shit.

1: Yeah that’s completely disrespectful to real victims

2: Oh uh yeah, you tell em! I would totally never do that