i always thought one to two was the standard and those with an incredible amount of labels had to have actually taken their time to research it.
im cupio but i tell everyone im ace. im non binary but i don't tell anyone, choosing to introduce myself as "ade" instead.
it's a bit of a complex thing for a simple system. ive learned yhat if no one asks for your pronouns you can just give them your name and it'll work half as well.