A dude dressing femininely is fine.
Albeit, yes, it is over sexualized, which is how a decent amount turn to it, sadly.
But, simply dressing more feminine is not bad. The sexualization is bad. Yes, I know, I’ve fallen victim to the sexualization, but all I think is that wanting to wear a dress or some shit as a minor is fine, as long as it isn’t due to sexualization or anything like that.