oh you may think it's fun; BUT there are rules of a mess dinner; in an actual military mess dinner, you are not allowed to leave your seat under any circumstances; BUT at a cadet mess dinner, you always push your chair in when you are going to get your food, and there are NO elbows on the table; and if you drop your utensil, you'll have to sing in front of everybody there. and you are only allowed to talk to the people that are across from you or beside you.