If that was real life, that would be different but this is online where I am just looking at her PUBLIC post and comments that are free for anybody to look at. Like I said, I will leave her alone instead of babying her but still. That's being overprotective which is still bad. It's not grooming if the user is not trying to date the user especially when they don't even have the intentions of doing so. If I was a groomer, I would be trying to track her, date her, and hide it from msmg. She is my friend so I was just making sure she isn't in anymore dramas. Before you judge, why not hear my side of the story and ask stolen toast herself.