Yes, there are many who do things because of differences, perhaps subconsciously some like certain to fill that negative role just so they can have something to hate, actually, sometimes it feels we love hate more than we love actual love, even if it's just a joke, let's say I made a joke about 9/11 to a person who's grandpa died in 9/11, it probably would hurt quite a bit, but the most probable excuse would be "bro, it's just a joke", my point: it hurts, and people forget that fact
Ps, I agree, LOL