I don't hate anyone. I have hated less than a handful of people and the last one died last year. As a leader, I liberated myself from hatred decades ago. I found it helpful to keep my mind open to the ideas of subordinates. Hating, even strongly disliking people closes things up unnecessarily. Hate is an expensive-learned behavior I choose to not buy.
Although hate appears to be a cornerstone principle of MAGA and similar philosophies, you can choose to let it go. I suspect that your load will be lighter, if you do so.