In war? At home, too: On bride burnings: https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S1752928X20301426
US domestic violence:
https://www.thehotline.org/stakeholders/domestic-violence-statistics
War is never honourable. War is ALWAYS unjust. It never solves problems, only creates them. Thankfully, the primal mindset that war is good and just is slowly eroding. Thankfully.