I accepted your apology, but don't remember asking for approval. He's probably the kindest human beings and so much more, than you can imagine. He's extremely intelligent, knowledgeable in many areas, and if he's kinky, then I am one kinky ass bitch! Because to each their own. I own my shit! I am my own woman and I am his, if he were to want me to be. I can't speak for him. I can't speak for anyone but myself, but I would love to be his, and would be in a heartbeat, if asked to be, if he wanted it to be so. I'm not trying to be rude, don't get me wrong, but I've never been one to care what anyone else thinks. I definitely march to the beat of my own drum.
He is a wonderful man. I'm very happy to know him and what ever he decides is fine by me. If wants to be friends, then friends it is. If he wants me, I will be his, if he leads, I will follow him to wherever he wants, to the ends of the earth. We're getting to know each other. And I just saw red and became protective in the second round because that is my natural instinct. To protect the people in my life that I care about, that I love, the people in my circle and walls of which I guard tightly. To reiterate, yes I know who he is, no I don't remember asking anyone's approval, not do I need it, but always remember cowboy, respect others, if you want the same consideration.
Sorry you were treated so badly, I've never passed judgement on you, you've never asked me permission for anything, nor do you have to. You are an adult. My advice as a friend, as a human. Don't drink, take care of yourself, your body is your temple, and for the love of God. Stop being judgemental, it hinders potential greatness in all who do so. I appreciate your apology and sincerely hope you get your act together and stop judging, for your sake. Be well.