Dude, first pf all, could you stop saying I look stupid, it's really bumming me out. Also, men are targeted for their femininity on the basis of being similar to the alterity, to women, who're "weaker and shit" that's also why transphobia mostly targets trans women: we're going in the opposite direction of what the system tells un should be what we want. Women are targeted by sexism for being women and men for being similar to women, both are rooted in misogyny, and any stereotype of "yeah all straight men are trash" is just an overcorrection rooted in that same idea.