Wow, that sucks. It seems like you could file charges on him for that. And get a restraining order. I live in Florida, and here, if you own the land you can get a loan with the land as collateral and build a house with it. I'm not sure what it would cost to demolish and dispose of your current house, though. I would try to make him pay for that, but I could see how getting money from a meth head would be almost impossible. You seem to be in a difficult position. Even if you had him arrested, there's still the other meth head neighbors to deal with. Is there any other family or friends you could move in with?