I'm going to say this so that it can be said.
Christianity itself is not homophobuc, there are are a couple of key verses but nothing too bad.
We can move on from these and accept that to be perfectly honest Christianity is a morally upright religion. Of course it was written and often used for control. But it is not inherently bad in any other way.
Clearly I'm not homophobic. I mean to say, that in a stream accepting fat people, black people and a shade of every pride flag out there, we shouldn't turn on people automatically because of their beliefs.
If I follow correctly they don't drone on about homophobia or transphobia. If they do they don't act up to standard of what Christ had asked of his followers. Christ also talked of acceptance; to go to hell because you're gay simply would not fall in line with the technical side of the Bible.
I have deeply religious relatives. We have debated before. Both came out with perspective, neither lost.
Don't hate people for their religion, hate them for their ideas. Otherwise we'd be antisemitic hypocrites.