if you have ever had any kind of romantic interaction with me, you need to check the comments

First off, if I have ever dated you or told you I had a crush on you, I want you to know that I did and still do very much love you. I love you all so very much. However, I think I've confused romantic love with platonic love.
I've always been an overly affectionate person. I love showing affection and getting it back. So I think kind of in my pursuit of this affection I would tell myself I love someone just because I care about them and I want to show them affection, but more importantly get it back.
I think that might be why I'm pan and why my gender identity fluxes. It changes based on who's giving me attention.
Like I said earlier, if we've ever dated or done anything "romantic," I still want to and would love to do that kind of stuff. Just know that I don't think romantic love gets translated through my brain the same way as most people and that'll lead me to doing the same kind of stuff with multiple people.

I also probably will never get into a serious relationship like that to avoid being the next Scarf. If you're comfortable with it and you want to do it, I will very happily continue to call you 'baby' or other lovey talk like that. But it's all in a platonic way. I love you all platonically.

if we have ever had those romantic interactions, please memechat me and we will figure out how to continue our relationship/friendship

oh i know this oh so well. im glad i wont make that mistake again. i will still hate my ex for doing that tho...

Genderslide: A subset of genderfluid and genderflux. This gender is affected by mood, surroundings, other people, colors, light, smell, scenery, and anything else you can think of.

It's like genderfluid where your gender changes based on outside influences. If your gender changes based on who is giving you attention, you might be this.

Also, I’ve posted info about different types of attraction in LGBTQ_explained last month. If anyone is interested in learning about the many different types of attraction or trying to put to words what type of attraction they feel for another person, they might find it helpful. I’ll be posting more in there soon. imgflip.com/m/LGBTQ_explained

Oh damn

good luck

pov: quoiromantic

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