Need drives crime and it's crazy how often parents start this

Lots of kids leave their parents' house when they turn 18, and some of them actually want to leave. Most of those kids don't turn to crime. Stop blaming parents for the choices their kids make. Our culture of blaming parents for everything their kids do solves nothing, it just makes adults less interested in wanting to have kids someday.

Need is a precipitate of crime and kicking the kids out at 18 is often a driver of that. Just say you're insecure and need for need to still be a thing to make you feel better about yourself.

I am low-key impressed that you know most people though.