I don't care how woke people define gender, gender is not a social concept, it is a biological difference between 2 sides of humanity. Male and female is not social, it is purely biological (which may affect social actions). Every cell in one's body determines weither any animal or human is ma,e or female, you are entirely made of the very evidence that proves your gender. Your gender is in the building blocks of your body. There is NO reasonable evidence that proves one human can entirely switch genders, they can merely pretend to be a different gender. And everyone else is supposed to play along by changing the definition of gender to a social standard, even though it clearly isn't and hasn't been since the beginning of creation.
If God burns down a city for Sodomy, and only gay sexual acts are not allowed, then maybe ur right. But, gay sexual acts are not actually possible, therefore the only thing that really happens is any "romantic" stuff. And if God burned down a city for only romantic actions, then therefore romantic actions aren't allowed. And all gay stuff can follow from this, and therefore, the only logical explanation is that gay is sin.
"Waisting your seed" was mostly meant about straight interactions, not Gay interactions. Sure, maybe God also meant to not waste it as in not wasting it AT ALL, but that action could be repeated alone, and that wouldn't be sodomy, the reason God burned down the 2 cities. (This is getting very descriptive, I am trying my best to be suddle.)
Let's recap:
1. Sodomy is either sexual gay interactions or any romantic gay actions.
2. Sodemy is NOT due to sexual gay interactions (because it is impossible).
3. Therefore, Sodemy is any romantic gay interactions in general.