When looking weird weren't that rebellious anymore, I guess a new way of pissing people off became needed. Giving your non-binary expression pronouns, which others need to adhere by. By not considering yourself a boy simply bc you're not a boy stereotype, devalues what the old rebels were fighting for - the fluidity of boys. Also it indirectly declares what a boy is - like 'boys wear blue', and since you don't, you're not a boy. Deeply regressive