Idk where I am, but I'd prefer to be the platonic next-door neighbour because I live in the "next-door" country from USA (where most of y'all are): Canada.
By default, one of Jay and Erin/cole’s adopted kids unless you want to claim another position. If you want to talk about having a different family role, go to my post about the family tree. That's where we're making adjustments.