You're mixing things that have in fact been confirmed by good sources with exaggerations, with pure nonsense that only exists in the fevered imagination of the right wing. I can't speak to your imagination/ lack of source validation.
Why would I get upset that he said one less hateful thing than has been reported? It's a start . . . now if he can only walk back the hundreds of other hateful things that he's said and done, he can begin to work on being presidential.
"Why, sometimes
I've believed as many as six impossible things before breakfast."; "vaccines don't work"
"immigrants are after MY job"
"defending our allies is pointless"
"infrastructure investment hurts our economy"
"bankruptcy and fraud show executive ability"
"the proof of climate change is still dubious"