If you wear them secretly under a pair of pants, it's an easy way to start getting used to wearing fishnets out in public. After you become comfortable with that, you can ease your way into wearing the fishnets more openly by wearing them during very short trips like to go get some fast food or something else equally as quick, that way if it feels too uncomfortable, you know you can go back home soon. If you increase the amount of time wearing them slowly out in public, it can make it easier.