help (TW: Sxual harassment)

So I have this friend. And he is a pervert.
All the time he used to sexually harass both me and my other friends.
He was smacking our butts, he tried to touch my chest once, and he kept making jokes about the female anatomy that made everyone uncomfortable.
I don't usually yell at people, but I was yelling at him 24/7.
I would tell him to stop, and that no one liked what he was doing, and he responded with a no.
It lasted like that for a few months before we couldn't take it anymore and told a teacher.
He didn't go near us for a couple of months and even got suspended for threatening to bring a gun to school.
When he got back, he would follow us around. We almost dumped my other friend bc she was willingly partners with him on a project.
When we told him he couldn't follow us, he continued to until we told a teacher. Then he ran away and started crying behind a tree.
But he's gonna be in my class this year and I don't know what to do.

Stay calm , try to make him feel like you don't see him , because he clearly wants attention , maybe he has a "crush" on you and your friend but in a pervert way , and he may be dangeroos if he threatened to bring a gun , so try to make him feel like you don't see him and he may possibly leave you alone , if you leave him alone , otherwise , if there is anything that happens , do what you did other times , tell a teacher , it's the best way to do .

He has admitted to having a crush on me. Me and my friend have ignored him before, and he just ran off crying :)

If you’re gonna be a perverted stalker, you gotta bring yourself to a point where you’re not running away sobbing like a kindergartener lol

lmao

stab /j
you can ask one of your teachers to not be sat near him or assigned as his partner, they will most likely listen and he will have less of a chance to bother you

Yep.

ignore my bad grandma I'm very tired

GRAMMER JESUS

bad grandma
BAD GRANDMA
sorry my grandma is being bad

wtf

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F**k off

lmao

I’ve been there before. Best advice I can give is just tell a teacher or someone you trust, or to tell him off

:)

Step one, stop being his friend
Step two, stop caring about his feelings
Step three, if you can, get your classes changed

Who said I care about his feelings? >:)
but anyway, thanks!

i wish i knew the answer to this problem. im.. in classes that i dont nesseicarily want to see..

huh.

my ex. i dont want to see them. especialy in science where they are with their boyfreind. but they havent had science together yet.

ah.

i think ill be fine because of three things.
im not intrested in them anymore
im still growing
i should not have had a relatinship inside a freind group.

Report him over and over. He'll eventually get either expelled or realise that you dont like him in the slightest.

Yeah I think he can tell that I don't like him back from the countless times I've yelled at him (And possibly punched him :3)

refer to my first bit.
REPORT REPORT REPORT

If there is assigned seating and you are put near him, I’d suggest talking to the teacher after class and explain that that guy has inappropriately touched you in the past and has said things that made you feel uncomfortable. Follow that up with something like, “Can I please be moved to another seat? It will help put my mind at ease, make me feel safer, and help me focus better on my work.”

If you are paired up with him for a group assignment, ask the teacher if you two can talk about something privately. Then explain that that guy has inappropriately touched you in the past and has said things that made you feel uncomfortable. Follow that up with something like, “Can I please have a new partner? It would really help put my mind at ease and make me feel safer. Idk if I can focus on the assignment if I’m constantly worried about what ___ might do to me.”

The important thing is to stress that he makes you feel uncomfortable and there's a history of this guy touching you, so you want to be moved for safety reasons, and it might also benefit your school work. That helps show that there is a good reason to move you. Ignoring safety concerns would be a very bad look for a teacher, and of course, they want focus from students & fewer disruptions in class, so it can be seen as beneficial for the teacher to move you.

Great, thanks! Idk if there's assigned seating, but if he's in my classes I will talk to the teachers abt that :)

You’re welcome. :)

🔪🔪🔪/hj
Go talk to a teacher about it

That was my original plan :)