Yes, I totally agree with you. I've been accused of internalized homophobia on more than one occasion. One because I agreed on the reason why a transphobe was transphobe, and her reasons were quite valid imo. She spoke about something that happened some time ago of a female swimming team having to share the same changing room with a trans female that still had male gentiles iirc. The girls took the issues to court too. All I said was, "it doesn't matter what gender you are, just go where your privates go to.". I also said this to a non binary person complaining about toilets, and you can guess what happened. Some of these people just want more problem to complain about the problem. And to me, anyone that tries to enforce this on kids are just sick in the head. Especially in parades where kids are probably in, seeing bondage and other weird shit.