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v Read all of it | Guys can we stop gatekeeping sexualities?? I’ve been seeing these bi checklists and truthfully I really hate them, it brings me back to the time my friend cried on my shoulder because she wasn’t leaning to butch femme or goth or listened to girl in red and thus wasn’t lesbian enough. It’s nice to have a culture but in the end leaves people feeling alone and invalid. I may not like garlic bread but still be ace. I may not like red velvet cake (I do tho) but still be aro. Honestly from my time in different sexuality shoes and around the internet I’ve seen a lot of hate for people who aren’t in ‘the culture’ (gate keeping) and it’s just not cool because not liking iced coffee has nothing to do with being bi. /srs | image tagged in blu3 s cool temp | made w/ Imgflip meme maker
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Cookiecatbomb
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we need a disclaimer on steriotype lists saying that: these are steriotypes and if you dont tick these boxes you can still be X
blu3.
0 ups, 5d
Yeah
unprofessional.dumbass
1 up, 5d,
2 replies
i 100 percent agree
just because im agender and pan doesn't mean I'm having a crisis or use lgbt pins
i just f**king exist, live how i want to. If im not 'pan enough' you can suck it because i am pan (pan enough), and this is where im comfortable, im not going to go out of my way just to be put into a social stereotype/class
blu3.
0 ups, 5d,
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Yeah I think so as well :(
unprofessional.dumbass
0 ups, 5d,
1 reply
honestly mad with people.
blu3.
0 ups, 5d
Same
adelaideaux
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lgbt pins dont affect who you like theyre just fun cute pride dinguses
unprofessional.dumbass
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3 replies
yes, but they're used in stereotypes
adelaideaux
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1 reply
oh for sure
the only societal rules we need:
1. hygiene
2. respect others
3. if someone offends you, f**k about it. leave the scene.
unprofessional.dumbass
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1 reply
fr
maybe also like, clothes
adelaideaux
0 ups, 5d,
1 reply
yeah, cover yourself with at least shorts and a halter
unprofessional.dumbass
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1 reply
thats it. thats all we need
adelaideaux
0 ups, 5d,
1 reply
hygeine
knowing when to quit
respect
clothes
so what the f**k is this bullshit where we have three billion offensive or unnecessarily bad stereotypes
unprofessional.dumbass
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1 reply
honestly im going to say it. world would be less harsh and cruel if we didnt have internet.
adelaideaux
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1 reply
internet was originally for pleasure
wtf
it now stresses us out
unprofessional.dumbass
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fr
it used to be so we can talk with people long distance, the hell happened
adelaideaux
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1 reply
stereotypes arent inherently bad. prde pins are just fun to have. im not saying "you must have a pride pin" i said "theyre fun but not required at all"
unprofessional.dumbass
0 ups, 5d,
1 reply
for me stereotyoes are f**king horrible. almost dated someone i met on discord, they though because i was pan i wiuld wear thigh socks, rain boots, soft shirts, have curly hair. stereotypes have gone way too far in modern society.
adelaideaux
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1 reply
certainly, lgbt, racial and gender based stereotypes suck almost every time

when i say some are good think the kinds in a sport or game

but yes certainly those ones suck
unprofessional.dumbass
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1 reply
eh i mean
in sports or games , they can be good, but then you categorize ppl and they'd probably much rather choose it for themselves
adelaideaux
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1 reply
some of the vids go hard tho
unprofessional.dumbass
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1 reply
ig
adelaideaux
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1 reply
that thigh higted booted soft shirted curly hair stereotype def sucks
unprofessional.dumbass
0 ups, 5d
its just humiliating that society has such high standards now
adelaideaux
0 ups, 5d
ikr
Prometheus.
0 ups, 6d,
2 replies
can you give me an example because i havent seen them
blu3.
1 up, 6d,
2 replies
Like asexuals liking lizards or just trends like “lesbian bingo” or “bi checklist”
Prometheus.
0 ups, 6d,
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as a bi person who does barely any of those things they seriously look like they just spread stereotypes
blu3.
1 up, 6d
Yeah but it has a huge influence on young queers and what they should act like
Cookiecatbomb
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1 reply
i dont think we have ny of those around. *scoots "big bucket of bingos" behind the doorframe*
blu3.
0 ups, 5d,
1 reply
:(
Cookiecatbomb
1 up, 5d,
2 replies
i guess bingos have more chances for a "full" or "almost full" list. still tho.
blu3.
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Yeah, but it hurts when you don’t get a full bingo and you start to be anxious
Cookiecatbomb
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1 reply
but still:
(thats what i meant by but still)
weird tho because i still fill out essentialy all of the aroace steriotypes but am (is? are?) pan
blu3.
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I don’t fill out the ace stereotypes and that really screwed me up when I was figuring out myself
adelaideaux
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i know what i am and tbh it was just a boredom thing
blu3.
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Yeah but it hurts when you don’t fit the stereotype
adelaideaux
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Like you're missing out on something
I don't have that issue but I can see where people more sensitive than I feel left out
adelaideaux
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i like the ones where you put stuff out about you
not stereotypes (unless theyre funny but that is rare)
blu3.
1 up, 6d,
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Oml wait Prometheus I’m such a big fan
blu3.
1 up, 6d,
1 reply
How is getting your liver eaten all the time
Prometheus.
0 ups, 6d,
1 reply
i recently got freed by this heracles guy he’s pretty cool
blu3.
1 up, 6d,
1 reply
Wait. Didn’t he kill his wife and kids? You really trust him? What if he wifes you and kills you aswell?
Prometheus.
0 ups, 5d,
1 reply
honestly i’m just pretty grateful to not be in eternal torture anymore
blu3.
1 up, 5d
Understandable
adelaideaux
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if sexuality and gender has a culture then just like a location some may not follow that culture. if i was born in japan but didnt watch anime, i would still be verifiably japanese. if im gay but don't have a slight nasal tone in my voice or a pride flag hanging up i would still be gay.
blu3.
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1 reply
Yeah that’s what the essay is about
adelaideaux
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this is to shorten it. tho user Rotisserie has a simpler definition.
blu3.
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1 reply
Yeah checks out
N I rlly hate these gatekeepers
adelaideaux
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listen to the song "edu-cation" by dr. dre. there is one statement that sticks out to me- "whatever happened to falling in love with a n**** with a bus pass? because you loved the n****? but I'M the pimp, motherf**ker... I gotta be the player..."

im not cookie cutter. my love is still real. im valid in spite of not having f**king nose rings.
blu3.
0 ups, 5d,
1 reply
Will do!!!
adelaideaux
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1 reply
it was written about a woman who had child with a married man but i think that statement sounds better coming from the actress's voice
blu3.
0 ups, 5d
Ok :3
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Guys can we stop gatekeeping sexualities?? I’ve been seeing these bi checklists and truthfully I really hate them, it brings me back to the time my friend cried on my shoulder because she wasn’t leaning to butch femme or goth or listened to girl in red and thus wasn’t lesbian enough. It’s nice to have a culture but in the end leaves people feeling alone and invalid. I may not like garlic bread but still be ace. I may not like red velvet cake (I do tho) but still be aro. Honestly from my time in different sexuality shoes and around the internet I’ve seen a lot of hate for people who aren’t in ‘the culture’ (gate keeping) and it’s just not cool because not liking iced coffee has nothing to do with being bi. /srs