bc they don't have god

you are the problem lmao

mostly because a lot of people shit on them

true but still

still what?
people ain't depressed because they like different people dawg
it ain't because they don't have God in their lives
it's because a lot of people don't even see them as valid members of society because they have different preferences/beliefs than they do

Bc.
Homophobia.

that is 10% true

not enough to be depressed over

Constant trolling,
Bullying irl,
Possible Non acceptance from parents,
I could go on

honest question

With what?

then why bother

Admit my reasons are vaild.

they are

so why bother

why bother what

dressing like a woman, etc

a lot dont. some people are just gay

ik that

Because that's their choice.
You can't stop it.

same reason someone with an addiction is sad

because they are constantly sinning

Realest

but more lgbtq people are depressed than most of the straight community

vro is 10 years old

well then ask the Christians that were born atheists, were gay/LGBTQ, and changed everything and now are christians

oh really

bc what I've heard is that it wasn't giving them the pleasure and love they needed and then they heard about God and fell deep into love (once again I shouldn't have to say this but turds like you are going to say, ThAtS gAy!! its like a fatherly love not homo) with god and his love fulfilled their desires and the love they needed.

Well, you do blindly believe that the Big Bang was reall, no proof

Who knows what I would be

If I had a rough time I’d probably try different religions

why dont you ask them like I have 💀

and there has to be a beginning to everything, there was a beginning to you, your mom, her mom, and for thousands of generations. God was the first thing to exist, he didn't have a start, he has always been here.

how is believing in the big bang not being an extremist?

I mean, where did the things that created the big bang come from? and then those things? and then those things? and then those things? and then those things? and then those things? and then those things? and then those things? and then those things? and then those things? and then those things? and then those things? and INFINITELY

then why not answer my question first?

Also why did you study religion? You obviously don’t care much

I was born into a Christian household, I was the grandson of the pastor. When I was 7 I gave my life to Jesus. About 5 years later I started to fall into a trap and I found myself doing things I shouldn’t do. Growing up in a Christian household doesn’t mean butterflies and rainbows. Same thing happened with my dad. And also, almost no Christian is a flat earther 🙏💀

Yeah because the Big Bang makes no sense

That’s why you need someone with more logic to learn it for you

He was always here

Now answer my question

Where did those come from

Where did that matter come from

Explain the big bang

bc I told you god in full detail so you should be able to too

tell me the logic behind the start of the universe

you sound like the average atheist that believes that the big bang was a real event and wants to deny things that goes against them

LGBTQ is being pushed in
schools
universities
companies
laws
governments
movies
video games
social media
advertising

They have everything on their side. And they’re still pulling the homophobia card.

fr

two things can be true at the same time tho

i dont give a damn if some college supports it for some social status of whatever. what i do care about is being kicked out of church and being shunned by my family

Why would you care about being kicked out of church? You don’t agree with them anyway.

i do agree with them

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just cus im attracted to men doesnt mean i think its right

you're so real for that

glad you think so

you see, ik that people cant help what they are attracted to, and people like you, who agree with church and doesn't think that same sex attraction is right, probably want to leave church at times, but best you could do is pray about it

No. You can help it. It’s always a choice.

Who told you it wasn’t?

if i could choose i would change it immediately. ive dated women. ive had sex with women. i cant do it. no attraction.

You’re admitting to premarital sex now?

Even being straight is a choice. Even being single (like myself) is a choice.

i dont believe in letting it drive your life, but theres no point in dating someone i would never be attracted to as itd just result in unhappiness for both people.

yes, i am. it was a bad mistake and i regret it constantly. thats besides the point.

obviously this isnt going to get anywhere if we disagree on something as fundamental as whether or not you can choose what youre attracted to.

and being single is an action, completely different from emotion.

Being single is a choice just like how marrying and having sex with women is a choice.

You should never let emotion drive your life. That’s the biggest mistake modern generations ever made. If I did that, I’d probably be in jail.

Apparently you don’t if you’re so scared you’re gonna get kicked out over it.

All you do is choose to live in fear. The same thing when you were scared you’d lose your college fund for some reason because you refused to drive your brother somewhere.

That life of fear is your source of depression. It’s very easy to blame it on “homophobia” because that means you have zero accountability, but from what you’ve told me, the truth is you choose to be fearful.

i dont blame homophobia on depressive thoughts i have. and agreeing with something doesnt have any effect on my emotions and attractions

Everyone else in this comment section was blaming it on homophobia, so I was assuming you were too. So forgive me.

But now I’m confused as to what this has to do with my original comment.

my intended message is that, it doesnt matter if some company somewhere in the world is supportive if those youre immediately around arent. what is the company gonna do besides make their logo rainbow for a month? they dont really care.

That’s more of a point for workers of those companies. I’m talking about adults here.

Regardless, my other points still stand
Social media?
Laws?
Government?
School?

There’s more direct support for these people than ever before. And they still take the easy route to blame homophobia.

well id say thats correct. i cant foresee being happy single but i guess thats my best option.

yeah dating is f**ked now

I could go into all the statistics about how marriage and dating have been ruined, but again, that’s a topic for another time.

Best way I can put it is this.

You are your own best friend because that’s who you spend the most time with. You have to learn to like hanging out with yourself.

fair enough, i cant find anything wrong with that statement

i assumed since the post was about people using this site you mean mostly teens.

those things definitely have an effect, but personally i think that parents have the biggest impact since youre around them for much more time.

homophobia really isnt that big an issue anymore id agree. in my experience, relating to sexuality, its feeling inadequate for my gender, or unsuccessful with never living up to the ideal family, and knowing i could never have children.

I’m just gonna combine our conversations here

“but theres no point in dating someone i would never be attracted to”

Yep. I won’t tell you what to do, but your options (in Christianity) are get married anyway or stay single and learn to love it. I’m never going to tell you the right woman will come along, because there is no right woman.

And hey, I’m never getting married or having kids either. Ideally I’d love to, but 2020’s America is one of the worst times ever to do so. But that’s a whole other conversation.