If im down it doesnt mean yall have to be down

I get no men 😭

maybe right now you re not here but all i want you to remember is :

Giving is receiving

Great exemple : I am back from an horrible day with rain 24/24 , exhausted , all i want is sleep , but i am here giving time to people i dont know that i may never meet in my life to receive the sensation of making someone get out of pain . maybe i did or maybe i didnt , maybe its a lie maybe its truth , but all i know is that i gave so i received .

now i wish you a goodnight / nice day

What do I have to give tho

right now it would be love to yourself

Nothin to love

there is people here that are missing arms , eyes , limbs , so love your eyes , love your body for being how it is , cause there is people out here that would envy you

I don't know how to tho
I know I'm not that bad off and so many have it worse and that I'm just whining, but I just can't see anything about myself that I can just love. Honestly, my only plus is that I'm academically gifted, which means nothing to me

at this point rn , i did my job , now its your turn to do yours , love yourself even for no reason , self hug , do something that you would do to someone you love

I get men but I’m very sure they prefer each other… I’m polyamorous and lonely.

what makes you think that they prefer each other ?

oh , well then make that friend smile :)

Ow my eyes

so here , its a lie , you know that being ugly is also a lie by the society to sell more makeup , because you know we al have different tastes i terms of people you find attractive or ugly , maybe you dont like how you look but tell yourself that someone on this planet may dream of meeting someone like you

I'll meet them in their sleep paralysis 😈

i dont know how to react to this ngl .

but also , you said that i was right , that you are not giving enough , so you get nothing . Well if you dont give yourself love , you will not receive , its why to me , its important to start here . Go check the mirror , and this time look at your face and say "i love you the way you are" , EVEN if its a lie , it would mean you gave yourself enough time say positive words , and so you may receive positive things

Hold up I'ma go look in the mirror rq

I get nobody at all :/

Me neither

same but am i like... keep on being sad because of this , does it stops me from living a wonderfull life ? no . each day i tell myself that if im still alone right now even with all my efforts , its because its not the time for me to have someone , i know this day will come , and it works the same for everybody , only the wait time changes

Dang that's deep

its my mission to make yall get atleast some help to get out of the hole of sadness

Sometimes I get out but then I go into the bathroom to pee and look in the mirror

there is few ways to end this
1. you can stop peeing ( which i DO NOT recommand AT ALL)
2. stop looking in the mirror ( i dont recommand it too )
3. take this as an opportunity to hype you up .

it happens to me sometimes , and when i look at what i have became and allat , what i do is not being sad , i talk to my reflection with things like "im proud that you are still here , standing your ground , not giving up even if those are hard times" , and when i do this , i mostly feel better

I usually say ew what is that or what is that horrifying being

change it to positivity , because talking to your reflection ( yourself in some way ) is the same as listenning to somebody talking to you , so the more you are negative about what you see in the mirror , the more you are litterally killing yourself from the inside , so switch to saying things like "im happy to be me" or even "i love you" . Even if its not the truth , even if its not mean , the words will still hype you up

I don't like lying tho :(

imagine there is someone like a friend that is really ugly , that is sad because they are ugly and they ask you if you think they are ugly , what will hurt more ? the negative truth ? or a positive lie ? words , even if they come from a lie , even if they are not mean , will do things on their mood , and because we are all humans that works the same , talk to yourself like you would talk to a friend that is down

Im that friend tho XD

i get no nothing (95% of the time)

so you get everything or is it just a misstype here ( just to break my confusion reading this )

i pull no maidens

I get nothing (100% of the time)

you see , some people loves to give things with nothing in return , but because they gave something , they will always get something back , so maybe if you get nothing , it might mean you dont give enough

You've got a point at this point in time I give no f*cks, I should probably give more

well hewego , i hope this will help you in your life then :)

What life 💀

the life you'll get

🫂

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I had long term internet problems twice this year, I was sick for a week & a half recently, the shingles are coming off the roof during storms, I'm having water issues, there was a flood in my basement today, bug issues, I’m very sure my polyamorous boyfriends prefer each other & I’ve been lonely, stress from family, feeling like a failure, gender dysphoria, I yet again feel weird about being older than most of you guys and still being on this site (because I’m being called old for being in my 20s), I’m very tired because I can’t get a good night’s sleep, and I want to drink but am trying not to. My issues are more than what most of you guys can probably handle or would know how to handle and it's a lot of it is adult life stuff so I mainly keep it to myself. I don’t want to bother anyone.

Dont worry bro i feel you , i somehow can relate to almost everything you said here , and dont worry you are not bothering me , i made this post to help ( i may start writing a big big big comment for the few next mins so dw if i dont reply )

when i was 10 , i had to sleep 6 whole month because my roof was crying rain water to become an aquarium , it was horrible but i survived it , once i was sick for one whole month and my pulmons ( if its said like that ) were permanantly damaged , but i am still alive , in my house right now , i have to use the less possible the bathrooms because of some pipe issue , and we are fixing it , i had some bugs eating the wood from my roof , but we fixed it , i had a girlfriend on a long distance love that cheated on me , today i am alone for a total of 5 years , didnt felt the touch of love for that long , but im still alive , i am always stresed about a part of my family and friends due to me being gay and them being possibly not lgbtq friendly , i sometimes feel like a failure , but i know i am not one cause i am alive right now , i feel sad about old days when i was young and never worried , but today i am 16 and ik i can survive it . So trust me maybe i cant handle adult things right now , but i can handle anything emotionally so dont worry , we are closer than it looks , we both survived allat , so it means we are not failures , we're survivors , champions ! We are both still standing , while maybe most people might be more than down after allat , Maybe it is hard , but life in general is hard . Cause life is only ups and downs , you may feel down but you keep your head up , waiting to see the up coming , cause you want it to get better , you want to get out of the down . See what you have been through , you survived that much , nothing can stop you from living your life . If people cal you old , you dont even know them so it doesnt matter , if you are sick , maybe its your body that wants you to take care of it , if you have love issues , maybe its too early , if you have sleep issues , maybe you need to take melatonin ( just sayin ) , if you have house issues , its a challenge life wants u to beat cause life knows you are a warrior that never had and never will give up .

i realised i did not finished the first fact , i had to sleep 6 whole month on the sofa

Period and bred trying to end himself

ngl idk anything about periods except that it is really annoying and yes , ngl if i could try to help bred it would make thing moves

They suck and I’m in a lot of pain

I’m sure bred’s fine- we’ll just have to wait

well i hope you'll do better then , ngl i cant do that much sorry about that , just stay strong and everything will be ok

a person who I liked and said they had a crush on me got a gf, and not that I have a new crush in scared they won't like me back

do you know this thing saying "lighting never strikes twice at the same spot" ? well it wont happen again if you think they like you , dont go instantly , try to search for hints , see if they like you in secrets