I understand how its disrespectful to gay people, but I'm friends with a lot, and we throw the word out there a lot. Not in a derogatory manner, but because we're just joking. And what I've been saying is, its just a word. And when someone say its, and hurts someone's feelings, they get banned. But when I was bullied, nobody cared. My feelings were hurt, and nobody got banned. And they literally said "we were just saying words" and guess what, the f slur is a word too.